YouTube Dating these days seems wild
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I been seeing this for a while. I seen the woman who likes big dicks like the blondie in intro. I seen that before. And since then, I been practicing, learning all things sex so I don't need to worry about that.
But since then, I also found "Gold Diggers." I spent about 5 to 8 years trying fo be a friend to an athletic woman who also happens to be black. I was told she expects money (security) but I was like "nah, she's not like that." We been dating on and off, not putting a title on the date... So one day, she says she loves me. After a breakup/divorce, I didn't want a rebound, so I let it go. Before I left California. I kinda flirted with her again - I loved what she was wearing.
So out of nowhere, she pulls me, and doesn't just pull me, she pulled me until we were private together in the lobby. She asks what my job i had. I lost respect, I lost my love, I lost interest. I'm done.
I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Sigh.
My favorite moment was with her best friend. Damn. Nice, caring, beautiful, but insecure emotionally.
But since then, I also found "Gold Diggers." I spent about 5 to 8 years trying fo be a friend to an athletic woman who also happens to be black. I was told she expects money (security) but I was like "nah, she's not like that." We been dating on and off, not putting a title on the date... So one day, she says she loves me. After a breakup/divorce, I didn't want a rebound, so I let it go. Before I left California. I kinda flirted with her again - I loved what she was wearing.
So out of nowhere, she pulls me, and doesn't just pull me, she pulled me until we were private together in the lobby. She asks what my job i had. I lost respect, I lost my love, I lost interest. I'm done.
I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Sigh.
My favorite moment was with her best friend. Damn. Nice, caring, beautiful, but insecure emotionally.
Is there more context to this than your post? I think it's important to consider your partner's job/income so far as determine how providing and stability will be.
I am willing to "provide," but I don't want to be paying for your extracurricular activities. She spends a lot of money on purses, shoes, clothes. I don't mind spending on things you need to survive, but there comes a time when you need to chill it with the spending.
Moreover, and this is a controversial thing. But she's a stripper of the old guard. Like literal strip club. But SHE doesn't realize she could be a millionaire today. Yup. She's basically like a fucking 10 on OnlyFans if my projection was anything to go by.
But she goes, and dates an old man who has money. When, she's got a smart guy as a husband (who also happens to be a friend), and a smart friend (me). This smart man is 42, and she was breaking 50 when I left. So at 50, she should've been modeling today. She should've been OnlyFans, and Instagram. But, but she OBLIVIOUS to the opportunities that are out there.
Just blows my mind. But I can't help but love the person behind the skin, the the looks. She seems smart sometimes, but is straight up oblivious. Some would call her stupid, but its ignorance.
You don't fucking need to sleep with men to be a millionaire. You got opportunities now. (I meant in general. Not you, as in you.)
That - that's called "Gold Digger." They date men, fish for money, stay with them, bleed them dry financially. Go to the next man.
This is worse when you're married. So EVERYTHING you own, is also hers.
EDIT: I was looking for this video to encapsulate this post perfectly...
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I am happy to be married
I'm happily single and not being chased by a Crazy single mom anymore
Single moms with baggage sound fun! lolI'm happily single and not being chased by a Crazy single mom anymore
No not really .... lol. Had to shut that down real quick lol
Actually, yeah. It's fun, until you talk about a relationship.
I'm not the only person in this predicament.
I don't hate women, but these ideas need to change. Too many women trying to cheat the law, cheat the justice system, and don't know there are ways to live without sleeping around for cash.
I hope to god we see a dramatic change in the way women think. But we gotta deal with the epidemic of stupid women, too. They're on TikTok with the abortion talk.
We have a lot of societal issues to fix before we birth the next generation.
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It is really way more simple than this. Modern women want all the freedoms of being a man with zero accountability and 100% protection.
Indeed. Agreed. Problem is, you have a lot of the women who likes dicks and is open about it. Its fine, as long as you can recognize that love is the best supplemental feeling in the world in conjunction with "sex."
Love + Sex + Companionship + Friendship
That's the "tent" design for love.
