And I'm sure they didn't, either, it's just my friend knows how to push my self-conscious buttons and one of them is being seen as a perv (I mean, I am a perv, but I know how to restrain myself in public!), so she saw the line of sight, saw a chance to push my buttons, went for it, and I've been paranoid since. I'm sure most people, guys included, probably wouldn't think about it in the same way I do, I just have that...blockage...in my brain that fixates on "oh shit, she's right, if I looked past her hands, I'd have been staring at a whole lot of chesticles! Whoops!" Haven't been able to not think about that any time I've gone to a drive thru since...