I am worried about my parents in that regard. They seem to be getting worse with remembering stuff. I saw my grandfather become a vegetable. I had to stop going to see him. He couldn't even remember anyone and he just laid in a ball all day. He died maybe a year or so after being put into a care home. My grandma didn't have it as bad but she had trouble with her blood and kidneys, had to get dialysis every 2 or 3 weeks. She still remembered a lot but would have episodes where she would think she was pregnant again and stuff.
I feel you with the pain. I have been struggling with neck and shoulder pain since my late teens. Now I have an issue with my lower left-back. That started 4 years ago and has gotten worse. I wake up every night. I can't remember the last time I slept through the night without pain waking me up. It sucks. I am planning on going to a chiropractor though soon and I have insurance for it. I know my pain is worse because I don't get outside enough (low D3 levels) and I am not very active. I work from home so I am sitting at my desk all day every day. They say sitting for prolonged hours is worse than smoking for the body now. I am doubled fudged cause I smoke as well (6 to 8 a day).
I want to make healthier choices but every time I say I am going to, I end up doing the opposite which is worse than what I was doing prior to saying I was going to make changes. lol
Yeah, my mother's sort of a hybrid between where your grandpa and grandmother were. She doesn't know who I am 90% of the time, but does know that she knows me and so therefore assumes I'm someone she's dating. The things she'll say at times, particularly when it's just me and her in a room, is quite shocking...and when I have to turn down her advances she gets into a rage and suddenly I've gone from being one person to someone she absolutely loathes the sight of. It's pretty hard dealing with it 24/7, and since she doesn't sleep for more than about 45 minutes at a time, I'm constantly worn out, but what can you do? It's my mother, she raised me, it's my turn to be there for her. I would kill for a day with my actual mother, though...to have her there and being herself...that'd be awesome. Just making do with the fleeting moments I do get where she's herself for a few minutes is what I look forward to these days.
Oh yeah, back pain's no fun at all to deal with. I get twinges in my back quite a lot, but fortunately the pain is temporary and goes away. What's going on in my legs has been an unfortunately permanent addition to my life, and that's been agony. I took two, quite literally two, doses of Ciprofloxacin (cipro for short), and had immediate issues with my joints. Severe pain and could barely walk. I called my doctor immediately after the second dose, because this was just following a surgery, so I figured it was post-operative discomfort, but after that second dose, when I felt better right before taking it, and then excruciating pain after it...I kind of put two and two together. He switched me to bactrim, a very common drug, and it worked exactly as it should have. I have had pain in my joints and legs ever since then, and apparently it's quite common with flouroquinolines (which is what Cipro is), and it's why they're not typically supposed to be prescribed except in extreme cases. There's even a name for it all now, which before those who I talked to who had experienced the same thing just called it being "Floxed," but the medical industry now refers to it as FQAD, Flourquinoline-Associated Disability. At any rate, this is starting to sound a bit like a tin-foil hat conspiracy post, so I'll stop there, but if you ever get prescribed a flouroquinoline, turn it down! Damn things have ruined my life.
Speaking of D3, I take D3 daily because I'm also typically quite low on it. Might want to consider adding a D3 or even a multi-vitamin to your day. Since I started taking them I've been slightly better. I'm also at home most of the time, because of my mother, so I know where you're coming from with the low-activity lifestyle, and I'm trying to make changes for me, as well. I grew up with my mother as a smoker, so I never picked up the habit because I couldn't stand being around it or being around her just after she'd had one, so that's one good thing going for me, at least...could do with a better diet and more activity, though, that's for sure.
I don't mean the dating apps. I met Jay on a wrestling forum of all things.
Bah gawd the pohwer of wrasslin'!
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