Relationship Advice Thread

[Beerus]

Harder to get unwanted pregnancies, STIs, poorly defined relationship boundaries if you develop a serious relationship with the intention of seeing if it leads to marriage.

I think some people just like causing chaos and trouble in their own lives. Or at least don't care about the risk of it.

 

[Giga Hertz]

I think some people just like causing chaos and trouble in their own lives. Or at least don't care about the risk of it.

<my ex-wife has entered the chat>

 

[Cell]

Could have just did it cause she didn't want to be bothered. Some women would rather lie then actually say they aren't interested.

I dunno bro, if a woman rejects me, and puts "in a relationship" on purpose, my feelings would wound. I had this happen a few times, its not fun.

Before internet, it would be in your face.

I was interested in a girl in high school, she pulled the same stunt. And as she gets into the car, she flips me off. Cold. I get trying to be nice, I get it... but that attitude black pills me and I act cold to women sometimes. Its because of people like that.

 

[Yoshi]

Some women are legitimately out to hurt you emotionally if you’re not careful.

 

[Beerus]

Moral of the story, some women are just bitches.

 

[ahill1]

Feel comfortable and make sure she is comfortable around you. Don't force things like unwanted jokes to break the ice. Try to be there when she needs when you can. Give her enough space always. Don't bend too much either, don't accept everything and if you are in the right, speak your mind. Don't try to be perfect and know she has her struggles just as you have. Be comfortable to open up many times and be invested when she does. Don't get caught up on what you can see as just a minor thing, don't overthink things too much.